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Hitting the Wall on my Debt Success Journey

May 30, 2017 by Frugal Prof




Did I hit the wall on my debt success Journey?

 

Nobody said change is easy.  Especially when it comes to paying off debt, creating a budget, and cutting back on credit card spending.

When I began this  journey, I started making tons of progress.

  • I got rid of my storage locker,
  • Reviewed my bad spending habits- see the dumbest stuff I bought last year,
  • Cut back on wasteful spending like my health club membership, expensive car insurance, XM Satellite service, and so much more.
  • I went so far that I cut pizza delivery out of my budget.

 

It was great.  And I cut down on my debt substantially.  I had tons of momentum.

My debt reduction plan was making progress.  I even started this financial blog to keep me motivated.   Which was a great decision too.  And thank you all for your support! (And If you’re ready to launch a blog, read the 7 Golden Rules to a Profitable Blog here.)

 

 

So, what happened?

I hit the wall last week.  I’m not sure exactly why.  But, when I bought my new glasses (and got ripped off), I lost some serious momentum.  Let me explain.

Adulting: noun. The practice of behaving in a way characteristic of a responsible adult, especially the accomplishment of mundane but necessary tasks.

Budgeting:  I’m starting to budget and plan ahead, which is great.  But, in all honesty, I was in the habit of doing whatever I wanted whenever I wanted with my money.  Change is hard.

It requires patience and discipline to become financially free, debt free, and retire early.  It’s a process.

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Children do what feels good.  Adults devise a plan and stick to it.” –Dave Ramsey

And that applied to money as well.  So, the same day that I finally decided to get glasses, I realized that U2 was coming to town that same weekend.  And I wanted to go.

 

 

One problem: the cheapest tickets were $250.  The bad seats were $250.  Ugh.  And I had already spent a lot of money on a great concert earlier this year.   However, this seemed like a total ripoff.

When did concerts get SO EXPENSIVE?

When did everything get so expensive?

Why is everything so expensive when I’m trying to cut back, get out of debt, and save money?

 

A few tips on spending less on Concerts:

  • Change Venue: Ticket prices can vary depending on the location of the concert — even for the same artist and the same tour. Compare prices at concert venues to find lower prices.
  • Check out the nearby shows: If you live in New York, you can do a quick weekend trip to Philly or a weekend trip to Boston.”
  • Sit solo:  When searching resale options, you’ll generally see better deals on single tickets, says Jessica Erskine, a spokesperson for StubHub.
  • Attend shows at the fair: OK, maybe Taylor Swift still isn’t in your budget. If you’re not picky about who you want to see live, check the fair circuit. Some county fairs grant free admission to a concert along with paid entry to the fair, which usually costs less than a concert ticket.
  • Earn cash back:  I use Ebates and they give me cash back for nearly all of my purchases including ticketing websites.  Ebates gets a commission from stores you shop at and they share the commission with you.  Average cash back is about 7%, which is great.  Right now, they are offering a Free $10 Gift Card when you join and spend $25.  More about Ebates Here.

 

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Taxes come first:  This year I decided that  I was going to pay my quarterly business taxes on time.  And not wait until April 15th and get hit with a huge tax bill again.

Well, my next quarterly payment is due soon. It’s on my calendar.  Its next month.   So, I know that I have to pay for taxes, glasses, my bills, savings, and investments.  As well as Double car payments to have my car paid off in the next few months.

More on my last car payment here.

 

 

Bottom Line:  The U2 concert didn’t fit in my budget.  Retiring early and paying down debt are more important than a concert.

This adulting stuff isn’t easy and I’ve been low level annoyed all week.  And I think it sent me into the wall.

There are choices.  Everyday.  And when you budget, you realize that all expenses count.

No more putting things on a credit card and letting the debt pile up.

Even taxes and healthcare.  Concerts are worth spending money on because they’re fun and you have memories and post it on Facebook.

Does anyone post on Facebook that they paid their taxes?  Welcome to adulting.

 

Adele in Concert

 

The upside:  Of course, I will survive missing the U2 concert.  And when I pay off my car in a few months, I will be psyched.  And I am making a lot of progress towards early retirement.   Staying motivated on the debt free journey is critical.

 

Staying Motivated: Next to my check book,   I keep a list of all the ways I have been saving money.

There are about 24 things on it:

  • cutting back on healthcare premiums,
  • expensive car insurance,
  • less expensive health club membership,
  • canceling my storage locker,
  • cancelling magazines,
  • negotiating a discount on my XM satellite radio.
  • and many others.

Reminding yourself of all the positive things you’re doing to pay down debt and retire early is essential.

Keep focusing on the long term goal. Be prepared if you hit the wall.

But keep going!

 

 

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Pay Off Credit Card Debt

May 24, 2017 by Frugal Prof

 

 

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Pay Off Credit Card Debt:

I’m sure we can agree that paying off credit card debt is a worthy goal.  After creating an emergency fund, paying down debt smallest to largest is the next step to become debt free.  In this post, I will review the steps I took to get out of credit card debt as well as discuss my decision to shift away from credit cards in favor of debit cards.  Let’s begin.




 

Getting Results by paying off credit card debt

 

The 7 steps you need to take to become debt free are pretty straight forward:

 

 

1.  Get organized:   Its nearly impossible to stay in debt if you’re organized.  For most people this means opening the credit card statements that are unopened in a box or drawer somewhere.  You can no longer hide in denial about the credit card debt or student debt that has accumulated.  By getting organized, you will be able to Take Charge of your personal finances.  You wont need a personal loan or any debt relief.

Right now, I’m reviewing my year end credit card statements from and I see so many charges that I’ve cut out.  And I feel great about all the money I am not wasting.

But part of me is calculating how many thousands of dollars of money that just spilled out of my life simply because I was not paying attention.  Read more about the dumb stuff I bought last year.

 

2.  Create a Budget:

It doesn’t have to be fancy.  On one side is all the income you have coming in.  And on the other side is ALL the expenses you have going out.  Every dime!  Which means you must open the credit card statements and really understand where your money has been going.  One of the advantages of this exercise is that it allows you to find your areas of wasteful spending.

 

3. Eliminate wasteful spending.

For me, the most obvious wasteful spending was a $100 storage locker.   It made me so angry that I eventually began this journey and started writing this personal finance blog.  (If you’re ready to start your own blog, begin here.)

Don’t dwell on the money that you’ve wasted in the past.  Focus on your debt free future.  I was paying for auto renew memberships that I didn’t even remember.  Never again.

I began to explore our current consumer culture and why we buy what we buy.  This helped me understand why I was spending so much money shopping.  More on Consumer Culture and why we buy what we buy.

 

Make sure you’re using discount codes and getting cash back. I use Ebates and they give me cash back for nearly all of my purchases.  Ebates gets a commission from stores you shop at and they share the commission with you.  Average cash back is about 7%, which is great.  Right now, they are offering a Free $10 Gift Card when you join and spend $25.  More about Ebates Here.

 

4. Negotiate Discounts:

For those services and memberships that you like but would like to pay less for, you need to contact the merchants and ask for a discount.  Yes, you can do it.  And yes they will give you discounts on your memberships:  Cell phone carrier, cable company, Satellite radio etc…  I have written a whole post about How to negotiate Discounts.

 

5.  Create an Emergency Fund: 

It’s easy to fall into debt when unplanned emergencies happen.  Unfortunately, life is full of unplanned emergencies.  That is why you need to set aside an emergency fund of at least $1,000 to start.  I have written an article on why and emergency fund is so important,  An Emergency fund is an umbrella for your life.

 

6. Increase your Income:  Everyone is looking for a way to increase their income.   When I got really motivated to pay down my debt, I wrote financial articles for a financial blog and created this blog.  You may want to find a side hustle or side income.  I’ve written a number of posts about the best ways to increase income.  45 Ways to Boost your Income is one example.

 

7. Stay Motivated:  I found reading the book, The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey to be incredibly helpful.  Yes, it lays out the framework he used to be become debt free.  But, the big benefit of the book is it gets you fired up to get out of debt.  It is very motivational.  And that is really helpful on the debt free journey.   More on Dave Ramsey’s book here.

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Credit Cards vs. Debit Cards

I’ve recently changed my mind on credit cards.

I always pay off my credit card balances each month.  And I never pay credit card fees or interest.  So, when I got my MasterCard bill this weekend, I knew something was very wrong.

They charged me a $25 fee.   Ugh

Which means I have to waste 10 minutes talking to them to reverse a fee that could never have even happened if I listened to Dave Ramsey and cut my credit cards up. Maybe he was right. Anyway.

Well, It was my fault.

I sent the wrong amount.  I was off by $3.43.  (Just Another sign I need glasses!)  I paid on time, but I sent them the wrong amount. I was off by $3.43  And they pounced  to add late fees and interest charges.

Read my related post on Banks that still offer free checking with interest here.

This is their business.  This is what we agree to when we use credit cards.

Of course, I called the credit card company and had it reversed.

And it happens every now and again, I’ll send them money and because of a holiday or something, they receive it a day later than the “due date” and they do the same thing:  late fees and penalties.  And that’s my fault, of course.

 

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But, I am struck by this feeling that they are ready to profit from anyone who:

  • falls behind on their payments,
  • gets sick,
  • loses a job,
  • has a crisis etc
  • …  the credit card companies are not messing around.

 

This is another great reminder of why you really need to  have an emergency fund, read my post because they’re waiting and so are other companies that will take advantage of your situation: credit card companies, payday loans, auto leasing companies, etc …  emergencies happen and it is essential to be able to handle them without taking a loan from these companies.

And I’m not saying credit card companies are not a perfectly legal business.  I’m saying it’s a perfectly legal business where they make more money from fees and interest when you are most vulnerable.  When you lose a job or have a crisis or someone gets sick.

 

 

What am I trying to say? Life happens.  Be prepared.

  • I’ve lost a job,
  • had a family crisis,
  • and gotten sick in the last 5 years.

And I wish I had an emergency fund in place.

My view on credit cards is essentially that over the next couple years I want to have a couple of debit cards and only two credit cards. Simple. Easy.  And focus on living debt free, invest, and retire early. If they offer a big cash reward to open a credit card like $500, then I may take advantage of a credit card offer now and again.  Other than that, I will mostly be using debit cards.

Why not close all my credit cards?

Well, I get benefits from one of my credit cards when I travel like access to airport lounges etc… that I think is really worth it.  It makes traveling easier.  And I get value.  But I’m not saying no, either.  It’s possible.  At some point, I may decide to use debit cards exclusively.  We’ll see. 

I’m canceling the majority of my other credit cards.  Just not worth it. The more of them I have open, the higher the possibility of something going wrong.  What about you?

 

 

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Taking control of my money

February 24, 2017 by Frugal Prof

It’s starting to happen.  As the credit card bills roll in I realize that the steps I’ve taken over the last 6 weeks are paying off.  My credit card bills are down $700 from my average bill.  It feels amazing. I don’t wait to open the credit card bills like I used to do.  I’m keeping track of my spending.  And it’s going down.  I’m using the debit card more often. 

 I’m questioning each charge- do I really need that?  Can it wait?  Is it really worth $40 to me?  Pretty much, when I buy something now, if I don’t love it, it goes back to Amazon.  Yes, I use Amazon for many of my purchases.  Now, I’m also looking at their deals- especially lightening deals.  I want the best deal now.  Before, I would buy anything that was at a discount.  Not anymore.  

I feel in control and not on the defensive.  And it feels really good.  Dave Ramsey always says, “the psychology is more important than the math.”  Winning with money.  Still lots of work ahead of me, but I am on the path and I am in control.  

I estimate I will be done with my car payments in 9 months.  So excited for that.  I’m analyzing that if I can cut back here and there, if maybe it can be sooner like 5 or 6 months.  And then that money will go into saving and investing.  

It’s starting to happen 👍

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Every time I bought an expensive watch this happened

January 31, 2017 by Frugal Prof

I’ve only bought two really nice expensive watches.  One was a Rolex and the other was a Bulgari.  Each was purchased to celebrate a financial “win.”  

(Don’t tell daveramsey.)

And each time, shortly after my financial “win” came a drought.  The first time I went from a steady job into a new venture.  I went from a steady, reliable income to an unreliable income and lots of financial stress.  

The second time was after a fund that I was managing had a great year of out performance. This would allow me to grow my assets under management and bring in many new clients I thought.  It wasn’t that easy as it turned out.  

Each time, instead of creating a buffer for myself (i.e. an emergency fund or stability fund), I was in need for income shortly after splurging on something I decided I deserved.  

Work hard and reward yourself.  That’s the way it was.

I was doing really well and needed to show it.  I think this is pretty common for men of a certain age, and it probably applies to women too.  Perhaps a certain piece of jewelry or expensive bag or purse.  

The truth is over time we change.  Our tastes change.  Do I love these watches the way I used to?  Not really.  My favorite watch is a bright yellow sport watch I wear on weekends.  It cost $50.  

And the truth about the expensive ones is that you worry about them.  I keep them in a watch winder.  I worry about them when I travel.  They’re expensive and valuable.  Except if I wanted to sell them, I would be disappointed in their real value.  

If my business has another great year, I’m unlikely to get a new Rolex or Breitling.  Am I becoming wiser as I age?  Or have I finally appreciated the value of things?  

We work hard and we want to reward ourselves.  We want to show our successes.  

I’m a big fan of cash right now.  Cash always gives you options.  

What are your thoughts 👍

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7 Helpful Tips To Creating a Budget and Become Debt Free

January 30, 2017 by Frugal Prof

 

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Basic Budget

What I learned creating my budget:

In this post I will review some basic steps to getting organized and creating a budget.  I will outline why having a buffer in your budget is important to keep you motivated to become debt free and stick with your plan.

The first two steps of getting out of debt are pretty simple.  It is simple to get out of debt.  But not easy.

 

1.  Get organized:

Its nearly impossible to stay in debt if you’re organized.  For most people this means opening the credit card statements that are unopened in a box somewhere.

I started this process.  I read every credit card statement.  It had to be done.  By getting organized, I was able to Take Charge of my personal finances.  Once you do this, you wont need a personal loan or any debt consolidation to save you.  You will be saving yourself.

As I review my year end credit card statements, I see so many charges that I’ve cut out.  And I feel great about all the money I am no longer wasting.  But part of me is calculating how many thousands of dollars of money that just spilled out of my life simply by not paying attention.  Read more about the dumb stuff I bought last year.

 

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2.  Create a Basic Budget:  Income vs. Expenses

It doesn’t have to be fancy.  On one side is all the income you have coming in.  And on the other side is ALL the expenses you have going out.  Every dime!  Which means you must open the credit card statements and really understand where your money has been going.

One of the advantages of this exercise is that it allows you to find areas of wasteful spending.  I was spending way too much on designer clothes.  (More on that here).

By creating a basic budget you begin to clearly see the financial picture.  And the good news is that if you don’t like what you see, then you can begin to make positive changes.  You are taking control of your financial life.

 

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3. You can’t out earn your spending

This year, I finally realized that I need to:

  • get more organized,
  • budget,
  • plan,
  • and take charge of my money.

 

For most of my life, my plan was to “out earn” my spending   And I should add I am an excellent investor.  More on that here.

I realize now that it is impossible to “out earn” my spending.  I don’t think anyone can unless you are naturally frugal.  And I am not.  Spending was the reward for making money.  I have outlined my struggles with spending in this post.

Take my word for it, you cannot “out earn” your spending.  It cannot be done.

 

4. You need a buffer in your budget:

The reason for the buffer in your budget is for all the stuff you have to buy that comes out of  nowhere that will drive you crazy. Some examples are below.

 




Budget example: 

I had to pay Microsoft $69 to keep using Outlook.  They sent me an email that basically said if you dont upgrade, you’re email is not going to work anymore.  Really?  Did I have a choice?  Yeah its only $69, but that’s the little stuff of life that adds up and over time we wonder, Why am I not making more progress?  Why am I not getting our of debt?  Why do I never have any money left at the end of the month?  That’s why.

Want another example: car registration $213. Every year. For every car.

Every month there are expenses that come up that are unexpected, but still have to be accounted for.  Having a buffer allows you to stay on track for these unexpected payments.  (This is not to be confused with an emergency fund.  (More on that here.)

Creating a budget will help you become organized and better prepare for these little charges.  Once you get organized and know where your money is going, you can actually prepare for things like paying taxes and still have money left over to pay down debt or start investing.

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Its about taking charge of my money

Once you start creating a budget and watching your expenses you can feel a sense of control over your money and your life and that’s a great feeling.  I wrote about this in the post, It’s Not about the Money.  It’s about Taking Charge.

5. Cut out anything that doesn’t add value:

The next step is to cut out the purchases in your budget that aren’t adding value to your life or your family’s life.  For the budget items that you decide to keep, you should be negotiating discounts and saving money on many of these services.  I wrote a post about how I negotiated discounts on many services I subscribe to in the post, Negotiating Discounts on the Way to Debt Free.

I’m getting on top of my budget now.  So, I’m looking at every little charge and cutting back on anything that doesn’t add value.

The point is that all those charges that come up like

  • medical deductibles,
  • anti-virus programs,
  • cell plan charges,
  • parking fees,
  • uber to the airport,
  • checking fees,

They’re coming and we have to prepare for them in the budget in order to stay motivated.

 

6. Create Extra income

Increase your Income:  Depending on how much leverage you want to achieve or how much credit card debt and student loans you have, it may be time to increase your income.  When I got really motivated to pay down my debt, I wrote articles for a financial blog and created this blog.  You may want to find a side hustle or a source of side income.

I have written a number of posts about the best ways to increase income:

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  • 11 Ways to Earn more Money in 2018
  • What are some Survey Sites that Actually Pay?

 

7. Personal Finance is Personal:

So, the only logical thing to do is plan to save a little more ie have a buffer for things that come up unexpectedly in your financial life..  The reason is really more psychological than personal finance.

The buffer is to make sure you don’t get discouraged.  If you’re trying hard to save money in a month and you get three $70 charges hit you out of nowhere, its reasonable to be discouraged.  Don’t get discouraged.

So, my advice is cut  back a little extra and its game on.  Also, increasing your income is a great way to add a buffer in your budget and pay down debt faster.  More on income opportunities.

 

My attitude: I’m gonna win with my money.  Whatever it takes!

 

 

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