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Every time I bought an expensive watch this happened

January 31, 2017 by Frugal Prof

I’ve only bought two really nice expensive watches.  One was a Rolex and the other was a Bulgari.  Each was purchased to celebrate a financial “win.”  

(Don’t tell daveramsey.)

And each time, shortly after my financial “win” came a drought.  The first time I went from a steady job into a new venture.  I went from a steady, reliable income to an unreliable income and lots of financial stress.  

The second time was after a fund that I was managing had a great year of out performance. This would allow me to grow my assets under management and bring in many new clients I thought.  It wasn’t that easy as it turned out.  

Each time, instead of creating a buffer for myself (i.e. an emergency fund or stability fund), I was in need for income shortly after splurging on something I decided I deserved.  

Work hard and reward yourself.  That’s the way it was.

I was doing really well and needed to show it.  I think this is pretty common for men of a certain age, and it probably applies to women too.  Perhaps a certain piece of jewelry or expensive bag or purse.  

The truth is over time we change.  Our tastes change.  Do I love these watches the way I used to?  Not really.  My favorite watch is a bright yellow sport watch I wear on weekends.  It cost $50.  

And the truth about the expensive ones is that you worry about them.  I keep them in a watch winder.  I worry about them when I travel.  They’re expensive and valuable.  Except if I wanted to sell them, I would be disappointed in their real value.  

If my business has another great year, I’m unlikely to get a new Rolex or Breitling.  Am I becoming wiser as I age?  Or have I finally appreciated the value of things?  

We work hard and we want to reward ourselves.  We want to show our successes.  

I’m a big fan of cash right now.  Cash always gives you options.  

What are your thoughts 👍

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7 Helpful Tips To Creating a Budget and Become Debt Free

January 30, 2017 by Frugal Prof

 

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Basic Budget

What I learned creating my budget:

In this post I will review some basic steps to getting organized and creating a budget.  I will outline why having a buffer in your budget is important to keep you motivated to become debt free and stick with your plan.

The first two steps of getting out of debt are pretty simple.  It is simple to get out of debt.  But not easy.

 

1.  Get organized:

Its nearly impossible to stay in debt if you’re organized.  For most people this means opening the credit card statements that are unopened in a box somewhere.

I started this process.  I read every credit card statement.  It had to be done.  By getting organized, I was able to Take Charge of my personal finances.  Once you do this, you wont need a personal loan or any debt consolidation to save you.  You will be saving yourself.

As I review my year end credit card statements, I see so many charges that I’ve cut out.  And I feel great about all the money I am no longer wasting.  But part of me is calculating how many thousands of dollars of money that just spilled out of my life simply by not paying attention.  Read more about the dumb stuff I bought last year.

 

Value Investing

 

2.  Create a Basic Budget:  Income vs. Expenses

It doesn’t have to be fancy.  On one side is all the income you have coming in.  And on the other side is ALL the expenses you have going out.  Every dime!  Which means you must open the credit card statements and really understand where your money has been going.

One of the advantages of this exercise is that it allows you to find areas of wasteful spending.  I was spending way too much on designer clothes.  (More on that here).

By creating a basic budget you begin to clearly see the financial picture.  And the good news is that if you don’t like what you see, then you can begin to make positive changes.  You are taking control of your financial life.

 

Relevant Articles:

44 Ways to Create Extra Income

Getting Results: How I Paid Off $17K

The Best Personal Finance Books

3. You can’t out earn your spending

This year, I finally realized that I need to:

  • get more organized,
  • budget,
  • plan,
  • and take charge of my money.

 

For most of my life, my plan was to “out earn” my spending   And I should add I am an excellent investor.  More on that here.

I realize now that it is impossible to “out earn” my spending.  I don’t think anyone can unless you are naturally frugal.  And I am not.  Spending was the reward for making money.  I have outlined my struggles with spending in this post.

Take my word for it, you cannot “out earn” your spending.  It cannot be done.

 

4. You need a buffer in your budget:

The reason for the buffer in your budget is for all the stuff you have to buy that comes out of  nowhere that will drive you crazy. Some examples are below.

 




Budget example: 

I had to pay Microsoft $69 to keep using Outlook.  They sent me an email that basically said if you dont upgrade, you’re email is not going to work anymore.  Really?  Did I have a choice?  Yeah its only $69, but that’s the little stuff of life that adds up and over time we wonder, Why am I not making more progress?  Why am I not getting our of debt?  Why do I never have any money left at the end of the month?  That’s why.

Want another example: car registration $213. Every year. For every car.

Every month there are expenses that come up that are unexpected, but still have to be accounted for.  Having a buffer allows you to stay on track for these unexpected payments.  (This is not to be confused with an emergency fund.  (More on that here.)

Creating a budget will help you become organized and better prepare for these little charges.  Once you get organized and know where your money is going, you can actually prepare for things like paying taxes and still have money left over to pay down debt or start investing.

creating a budget

Its about taking charge of my money

Once you start creating a budget and watching your expenses you can feel a sense of control over your money and your life and that’s a great feeling.  I wrote about this in the post, It’s Not about the Money.  It’s about Taking Charge.

5. Cut out anything that doesn’t add value:

The next step is to cut out the purchases in your budget that aren’t adding value to your life or your family’s life.  For the budget items that you decide to keep, you should be negotiating discounts and saving money on many of these services.  I wrote a post about how I negotiated discounts on many services I subscribe to in the post, Negotiating Discounts on the Way to Debt Free.

I’m getting on top of my budget now.  So, I’m looking at every little charge and cutting back on anything that doesn’t add value.

The point is that all those charges that come up like

  • medical deductibles,
  • anti-virus programs,
  • cell plan charges,
  • parking fees,
  • uber to the airport,
  • checking fees,

They’re coming and we have to prepare for them in the budget in order to stay motivated.

 

6. Create Extra income

Increase your Income:  Depending on how much leverage you want to achieve or how much credit card debt and student loans you have, it may be time to increase your income.  When I got really motivated to pay down my debt, I wrote articles for a financial blog and created this blog.  You may want to find a side hustle or a source of side income.

I have written a number of posts about the best ways to increase income:

  •   45 Ways to Boost your Income
  • 11 Ways to Earn more Money in 2018
  • What are some Survey Sites that Actually Pay?

 

7. Personal Finance is Personal:

So, the only logical thing to do is plan to save a little more ie have a buffer for things that come up unexpectedly in your financial life..  The reason is really more psychological than personal finance.

The buffer is to make sure you don’t get discouraged.  If you’re trying hard to save money in a month and you get three $70 charges hit you out of nowhere, its reasonable to be discouraged.  Don’t get discouraged.

So, my advice is cut  back a little extra and its game on.  Also, increasing your income is a great way to add a buffer in your budget and pay down debt faster.  More on income opportunities.

 

My attitude: I’m gonna win with my money.  Whatever it takes!

 

 

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How It All began- Life After Debt

January 29, 2017 by Frugal Prof

 




What made me begin this debt-free Journey?

In one of my favorite books on personal finance, there is a quote that reads, “A part of all you earn is yours to keep.”  It is true.  It is wise.  But it only applies if you have a budget and decide to keep a part of what you earn.

Otherwise, all that you earn goes to consumer purchases, credit card debt, student loans, and new restaurants.   At some point, it becomes necessary to take back control of your money.  In this post and in this blog, there are lessons that I learned the hard way.  Learn from my mistakes and advice.

 

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Life after Debt:  How it all began

 

I had had Enough

It wasn’t a huge bill.  It was $162.  The storage place I had been using decided that I wasn’t paying Enough.  It wasn’t a big deal when I started renting my storage unit.  It was less than $100.  I believe it was $97.

And here I was staring at a letter from them explaining that $162 for a storage locker seemed fair to them now.

$162 for a storage locker?  Now, mind you I had never even visited my “stuff” at this place.  It just sat there.  And every month on my credit card bill I paid $97 because that’s the way things are.  What else could I do?  And this wasn’t nice stuff or expensive stuff.  It was yearbooks, photos, baseball cards.  The stuff you accumulate in a life of accumulating stuff.  I tried to negotiate, but they explained that they were more expensive than other storage places because they have air conditioning for my stuff.  My stuff got the first class treatment.  I felt even worse.

I admit I kinda snapped.

Not immediately.  But in November around Thanksgiving after listening to one too many Dave Ramsey podcasts, I just said no more.

No negotiating.  Not a lower rate.  Zero.  Zilch.  NADA.  I WAS DONE.

I wasn’t paying another dime to these folks.  It was lazy and stupid and wasteful.  My baseball card collection at best was worth $2,000.  So, a year in this place cost me $1,944.  No Way.  No more.  I took a bunch of garbage bags and cut everything down in half and threw it out.  And took 6 boxes home with me that night.  The next morning I cleaned out the last 6 boxes and ended my contract.

Savings: $1,944

Frugal tip:  when you show up with bags and take boxes home, they will negotiate.  More tips and strategies on negotiating discounts.

For me, it was way too late.  I was done.

 

 

It was amazing.  I felt so great.  My expenses were in my control.  Every penny that goes out on my credit card bill was under my control.  I wasn’t paying another dime unless it was something that was actually adding value to my life.  I started cutting back and creating a budget.

 

Related Posts:

How I paid off $17K in Debt

How to Create Fast Cash with Ebay

Do I Regret the $600 Concert Tickets?

 

I have a few extra boxes in my home from cleaning out the storage locker and will try to reduce and sell off these items on Ebay. Tips on how to create fast cash on Ebay here.

I’m on a bit of a minimalist kick right now anyway, so having fewer items in my life is fine for now.  Less clutter.  More space.  More financial freedom.

That’s what got me started. And from there I paid off $17K in debt in one year.

How did I do it?

  • I got organized,
  • Negotiated discounts on my purchases,
  • sold stuff on Ebay,
  • developed a side hustle,
  • and create a blog to share my story.

 

So, here we go.  Thank you for being part of this journey

 

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